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Tomy Wayne Pace Jr.

June 17, 1982 — December 26, 2025

Winchendon

Tomy Wayne Pace Jr., born on June 17, 1982, in Gardner, MA, was a man of many passions and talents, known widely for his love of life and dedication to family. Tomy, as he was affectionately known, had a way of touching the lives of those around him with his infectious laughter, engaging stories, and the warmth of his personality. He was a man who truly lived; his spirit was as vast as the outdoors he so loved.

Tomy's love for nature was evident in his favorite pastimes - fishing, activities that brought him immense joy and peace. He was equally at home in the hustle and bustle of a construction site, where he spent many years installing drywall. Tomy was a craftsman, and his work ethic and dedication echoed in every wall he built and every room he transformed. His other great love was music, with a particular fondness for the Grateful Dead, Bob Marley, and Bob Dylan; their melodies were the soundtrack of his life.

Tomy leaves his children, Lilian, and Tomy III. He was a beloved son of Tomy Sr. and Sharon Pace and a cherished brother of Timy Pace and his significant other, Maria Caron, and Amy Smith and her husband, Matt. Along with several aunts, uncles, and cousins. Tomy was preceded in death by his grandmothers, Madeline McQuestion and Helen White, whose love and teachings shaped him into the man he was.

Tomy's loss leaves a void that can never be filled, but his memory remains etched in our hearts forever. His life, filled with authenticity, laughter, and love, will continue to inspire us all.

Please join us in celebrating Tomy's life at Stone-Ladeau Funeral Home, 343 Central St., Winchendon, MA, from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m., with a service at 4:00 p.m. We encourage friends and family to share their memories and upload photos of Tomy to his memorial page as we remember and honor his vibrant life.

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